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Community Safety Symposium: Prepare for the Unexpected
Nick Dougherty • October 3, 2024

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Let me hit you with some hard truth: if you’re not taking care of yourself, you’re not ready to take care of anyone else. As a leader, you’re responsible for your team, your family, your students—and the only way you can be there for them is by showing up for yourself first. Martial arts school owners, this is your wake-up call because what I’m about to tell you is something you need to live and breathe if you’re going to thrive in this chaotic world.


Challenges are coming. They always do. Life’s a never-ending storm of problems, obstacles, and unpredictability. But that’s where leaders are born. It’s in the fire that you find out what you’re made of. I’m not here to sugarcoat things for you. I’m here to tell you the hard truth because that’s what brotherhood is about. We don’t blow smoke up each other’s asses. We face facts. And right now, the fact is that you need to be stronger than ever.


Let me tell you something about adversity: it doesn’t come at you nicely. It doesn’t say, “Hey, do you mind if I make things a little harder for you today?” It hits you like a freight train, unannounced, and suddenly, you’re in the thick of it. You want to know how to get through that? Embrace it. When life throws you more problems, ask for more. Don’t shy away. Don’t let it overwhelm you. Run towards it. That’s how we win.


Why You Have to Be Mentally, Physically, and Spiritually Ready

Nobody’s walking around at a level 10 in all areas of life all the time. Anyone who says they are is lying to you. There’s sickness, family problems, and business hurdles—none of us are immune. But here’s the thing: the ones who succeed are those who keep pushing forward, even when it feels impossible.


That’s why I’m telling you this: get your mental, physical, and spiritual game on point. If you’re mentally weak, you’re done. If you’re physically out of shape, you’re done. And if you’re spiritually disconnected, life will drag you down. Start now, right now. Hit the gym. Eat right. Meditate, pray—whatever you need to do to get that connection with something bigger than yourself. Build the foundation now, so when adversity strikes, you’re not just standing—you’re leading.


Problems Are Coming—Prepare for Them Now

In the next 30 days, expect more problems. More chaos, more unpredictability. It’s coming, like clockwork, and if you’re not preparing, you’re setting yourself up for failure. This isn’t about being pessimistic—it’s about being realistic. Whether it’s supply chain disruptions, economic downturns, or even personal struggles, the question remains: Are you ready?


I’m telling you to anticipate these problems. Don’t cross your fingers and hope everything stays smooth. That’s fantasy thinking. You’re a leader—you don’t live in fantasies. You live in reality. And the reality is this: things will get harder before they get easier.


Here’s what you need to do: have a plan. Have food, water, and resources ready for the unexpected. If you’re running a martial arts school, be the example. Lead your students, their families, and your team—all of them—through this chaos. Because no one is coming to save you. No politician, no hero on TV, no one. It’s up to you.


How to Implement the COMMUNITY SAFETY SYMPOSIUM

You might be asking, “Nick, how do I take these ideas and actually make them happen?” Good question. I’m all about action, and here’s the step-by-step breakdown on how you can implement a Community Safety Symposium in your community.


  1. Start Priming Your Community Now Don’t wait until the week of the event to start talking about it. You need to prime your audience in advance. Begin by creating conversations on social media, in your email lists, and with your students. Ask questions like: “What happens if the supply chain breaks again? Are you ready?” or “How safe is your home during a power outage?” Plant those seeds of curiosity and concern. Let people know this event isn’t just another seminar—it’s a real-world preparation for what’s coming.

  2. Partner with Local Leaders You’re not in this alone. Partner with your local police department, fire department, school systems, and even city officials. This isn’t just a marketing opportunity—it’s about stepping up as a community leader. Go visit them in person. Shake hands, look them in the eye, and tell them what your plan is. Let them know you're there to support the community’s safety. Ask them to promote the event to their networks. People trust local leaders, and their support will bring even more attention to your symposium.

  3. Plan the Event Around Real-World Scenarios Your Community Safety Symposium needs to be more than just theory. You need to focus on real-world scenarios that people could face: blackouts, food shortages, civil unrest. Have a session on how to secure a home during a blackout. Teach them how to gather food and water in emergencies. Talk about self-defense tactics for home invasions. This isn’t just about martial arts—it’s about survival.

  4. Create Content to Build Anticipation Every piece of content you create—whether it’s a Facebook post, email, or flyer—should lead back to the symposium. Use images, videos, and stories that get people thinking. “What would you do if the grocery shelves were empty?” or “Is your family prepared for a power outage?” Engage your audience’s emotions. Fear is a powerful motivator—use it to make them understand the importance of attending. But don’t stop at fear—offer them the solution: the Community Safety Symposium is where they’ll get answers.

  5. Maximize the Event’s Reach The day of the event, document everything. Record it, take photos, gather testimonials. This is your content for weeks, maybe months. After the event, follow up with everyone who attended. Send them the recording if they missed anything. Turn it into a digital course, a workshop, a video series—whatever it takes to keep the momentum going. This is how you stay top-of-mind with your community. The goal isn’t just a one-time event. The goal is to create an ongoing relationship where people see you as the go-to leader in times of crisis.

  6. Follow Up and Follow Through Most people fail here. They think, “I did the event. My work is done.” Wrong. The genius is in the follow-up and follow-through. After the event, ask attendees for feedback. Engage them further: “What did you learn? How will you apply it?” Then, offer them a way to continue learning with your martial arts program. This isn’t just about prepping for disasters—it’s about building a stronger, more resilient community, and you’re at the center of it.


The Opportunity in Chaos

While other businesses are scrambling and falling apart, you have an opportunity. When things get tough, most people panic. They shrink. But not you. You’re going to rise. You’re going to be the leader your community needs. While others are falling apart, you’ll be gathering people together. You’ll be providing solutions when others are too scared to act.


This is your moment. Step into the fire and lead. Don’t wait for the chaos to hit before you take action. Start now. Prime your community. Start the conversations. Offer solutions. And when things get crazy—and trust me, they will—you’ll already have people looking to you for guidance.


Why Accountability is Everything

None of this works if you’re not holding yourself accountable. We’ve talked about this before, but it bears repeating: Accountability is the key to leadership. If you’re not following through on what you say you’re going to do, how can you expect anyone to follow you?


Set the example. Start with your own personal routines—whether it’s your workouts, your nutrition, or your spiritual practices. Then, extend that accountability to your business and your community. Host the events you say you’re going to host. Lead the initiatives you’ve promised to lead. Be the rock that people can count on.


FAQs: From the Call

Here are some of the most important questions from our recent call, along with the answers I gave. These will give you more insight into how to tackle these challenges head-on.


Can we push the Community Safety Symposium in November?

Yes, absolutely. While I believe more chaos is coming in the next 30 days, this uncertainty will likely continue for several months. Do what’s best for your audience and your resources. Timing is important, but doing it right is more important than rushing. However, the priming should start now to create engagement and interest.


Should we wait for Black Friday to launch our sales?

No. Don’t wait for Black Friday. People don’t wait for Black Friday anymore because they’re often already broke by December. You should start earlier. Black November is a better approach​.


Can we push the Kid Warrior Bootcamp or the symposium to a later time?

Timing doesn’t matter as much as making sure the event is right for your audience. If you can’t do it one week, push it back. What matters is the consistency in content creation, engagement, and being present for your community


What should we do to prepare for election tensions or potential unrest?

Be prepared to go virtual if things shut down. Make sure you have contingency plans in place to keep running your martial arts school online if needed. Don’t get caught off guard—prepare now so you’re ready to continue engaging with your students.


What’s the biggest risk if we don’t take action now?

If you’re not preparing mentally, physically, and spiritually for what’s coming, you’re going to get overwhelmed. The biggest risk is complacency—thinking that everything will go back to normal. It won’t. This is your chance to step up and be the leader.


Should we rely on marketing automation right now?

Marketing automation is great, but it’s not the most important thing right now. What’s more important is connection. Connect with your community on a real level. Offer them value that goes beyond your usual promotions. Lead with solutions, not just offers.


How can I prepare my school for more chaos?

Be ready to go virtual if needed. We’ve seen how quickly things can shut down, and that’s always a possibility. Have a plan for online classes, and make sure you’re communicating with your community regularly. Let them know you’re thinking ahead.


What’s the biggest takeaway from this?

The biggest takeaway is that leadership is about stepping up when others won’t. This isn’t about politics or personal gain—it’s about taking responsibility for your community and leading them through adversity. The crazier things get, the more people will look to you for guidance. Be ready.

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By Nick Dougherty March 31, 2025
Let me be brutally clear: People don’t cancel because they’re “busy.” They cancel because they forgot why it mattered. They lose the fire. They forget the fight. They drift — like sheep — back into the herd of mediocrity. And if you let that happen on your watch? You’re not running a martial arts school. You’re running a daycare with punching bags. But not anymore. Because today, I’m handing you the nuclear codes to flip the script on cancellation culture and install: ❌ THE UN-QUITTABLE CULTURE™ SYSTEM Not a pep talk. Not a strategy. A hardwired identity shift that makes quitting feel like betrayal. STEP 1: BECOME A MOVEMENT, NOT A MEMBERSHIP People don’t quit tribes. They quit gyms. They quit hobbies. But not tribes. 🔥 BUILD THE WALL OF THE COMEBACK. Student almost quit and stayed? Their name goes up. With pride. With a story. With proof. This wall becomes sacred. A symbol. A signal. You don’t abandon your tribe. You fight for it. STEP 2: THE INCEPTION SEED (DAY 1) Don’t say "Welcome." Say this: “Most students hit a wall around 30–60 days in. That’s normal. Life gets busy. Doubts creep in. But that’s the moment where everything changes — if you push through.” You’ve just future-proofed their commitment. You gave the pain meaning. They’ll remember this when the quitting voice shows up. STEP 3: THE MONTHLY LOOP Subject: "Do You Remember Why You Started?" "We do. And it’s working. Here’s what we’ve noticed: [Insert specific progress]." Attach a win. A photo. A quote from class. This triggers the original emotional WHY. Motivation fades. Vision sticks. STEP 4: THE DDS™ — DISAPPEARANCE DETECTION SYSTEM Two absences in a row? That’s DEFCON 1. Send this: "Hey [Name], I’m worried. Two missed classes usually means a slump is starting. Can I call you for 2 minutes today to help get you back on track?" You noticed. That alone may save them. STEP 5: THE "IF YOU QUIT NOW" LETTER They say they want to quit? You don’t process it. You print this and hand it to them: IF YOU QUIT NOW… You’ll miss the moment you were about to break through. You’ll teach your kid quitting is acceptable when life gets hard. You’ll walk away from the version of you that was finally showing up. This isn’t meant to be easy. It’s meant to change you. Then say: "Read this. If you still feel the same way, I’ll respect it." Most never go through with the cancel. STEP 6: THE COMEBACK CONTRACT Offer this: "Come back for 30 days. No pressure. If you still want out after that, I’ll process it and even give you a shirt for giving it one last shot." You look like the hero. And 95% of the time? They don’t quit again. STEP 7: PSYCHOLOGICAL PAYOFF SYSTEM Belts don’t keep students. Progress does. Ask: "What does success look like to you in 90 days?" Then: Track it. Measure it. Show them the finish line. Progress = Retention. Visible progress = Loyalty. 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Can I give you a quick 2-minute call today to get you back on track?” 2. 📞 Parent Intercept Message Message: “Hey [Parent], quick note: when students miss two or more classes, it usually turns into quitting. But that doesn't happen on my watch. Can I give you a quick call today or tomorrow? I’ve got a plan.” 3. 📄 “If You Quit Now” Letter (Print or Email) Subject/Headline: IF YOU QUIT NOW… You’ll miss the moment you were about to break through. You’ll never know the potential sitting just beyond the struggle. You’ll teach your child that quitting is normal when things get tough. This program wasn’t meant to be easy. It was meant to change you . We’re fighting for your growth. Are you? 4. 🎯 Recommitment Bonus Offer Offer: 30-Day Recommitment Challenge Message: “What if you gave it just 30 more days? If you're still not feeling it, I’ll process the cancel — and even give you a free shirt just for the effort. 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Confidence is under attack. Not just for kids. Not just for adults. For everyone. 🚨 70% of kids today struggle with confidence and avoid challenges out of fear of failure. 🚨 Over 85% of adults admit they lack self-confidence in critical areas of life. The world isn’t getting easier. It’s getting softer. Too many people avoid hard things, avoid struggle, avoid discomfort. And because of that, they never grow. At your martial arts school, you know the truth: Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you build. But how do you get people to realize they need to take that first step? How do you connect with leads in a way that makes them say, "I need this. My child needs this." ? Enter: The Confidence Assessment. 🔷 What is the Confidence Assessment? 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Share testimonials and success stories online. 3️⃣ Use it for community outreach Run a Confidence Workshop at schools, community centers, or businesses. Give the assessment before the event, then show them how martial arts can fix their confidence gaps. 🔷 The Confidence Assessment in Action: A Step-by-Step Plan 1️⃣ Create a landing page where people can take the Confidence Assessment. 2️⃣ Promote it with social media posts, Reels, and emails (templates below). 3️⃣ Follow up with everyone who takes it —invite them in for a Confidence Consultation. 4️⃣ Use the results to start powerful conversations that lead to sign-ups. Simple. Effective. A no-brainer for your martial arts school. 📌 Social Media Posts to Promote the Confidence Assessment 🔥 Post #1 – The Confidence Crisis (For Kids & Parents) 📸 Image/Video: A kid looking unsure vs. a kid in a martial arts stance. 📝 Caption: 🚨 The Confidence Crisis is Real 🚨 Did you know 70% of kids lack confidence and avoid challenges? 💭 Does your child struggle with: ❌ Fear of failure? ❌ Low self-esteem? ❌ Holding back in social situations? Confidence isn’t something kids are born with. It’s something they build. That’s why we created The Confidence Assessment —a quick, powerful tool to measure where your child stands. 💥 Take the FREE Confidence Assessment now → [Insert Link] 🔥 Post #2 – The Adult Confidence Challenge 📸 Image/Video: A hesitant adult looking in the mirror vs. an adult training hard. 📝 Caption: How Confident Are You… Really? 🤔 Over 85% of adults admit they lack confidence in key areas of life. 💭 Do you: ❌ Struggle to speak up? ❌ Avoid stepping outside your comfort zone? ❌ Feel like fear holds you back from taking action? It’s time to fix that. Take The Confidence Assessment now and find out where YOU stand. 💥 Click here to take it FREE → [Insert Link] 📌 Email Templates to Promote the Confidence Assessment 🔥 Email #1 – The Confidence Crisis (For Parents) Subject: 🚨 70% of Kids Struggle with Confidence. Does Yours? Hey [First Name], There’s a Confidence Crisis happening right now. 🚨 70% of kids lack confidence and avoid challenges. 🚨 More kids today struggle with self-doubt than ever before. And here’s the hard truth… Confidence isn’t something kids are born with. It’s something they build. That’s why we created The Confidence Assessment. 💥 It’s a quick test to measure where your child stands and how to improve. If you want to know exactly where your child’s confidence gaps are—and how to fix them— click below to take the assessment now. 🔥 Take the FREE Confidence Assessment → [Insert Link] See you on the mats, Thu Doolittle NTA Taekwondo 🔥 Email #2 – The Adult Confidence Challenge Subject: How Confident Are You… Really? Hey [First Name], Over 85% of adults admit they struggle with confidence. 💭 Do you: ❌ Hold back from speaking up? ❌ Avoid challenges that push you outside your comfort zone? ❌ Feel like self-doubt stops you from reaching your full potential? Confidence isn’t something you either "have" or "don’t have." 🔥 It’s something you train. We created The Confidence Assessment to help you measure your confidence level—and show you exactly where to improve. 💥 Click below to take the assessment now. 🔥 Take the FREE Confidence Assessment → [Insert Link] See you on the mats, Thu Doolittle NTA Taekwondo 📌 Instagram Reel Framework to Promote the Confidence Assessment 🎬 Reel Title: "Is Your Confidence Holding You Back?" 📌 Hook (First 3 Seconds - MUST Grab Attention): ❌ "Most people think confidence is something you’re born with… It’s not. " 📌 Main Content: 🎥 Split-screen: Left side: A hesitant person (kid/adult) looking unsure. Right side: A confident martial artist standing strong. 🗣 Voiceover: 💬 "Confidence is trained, just like any skill." 💬 "But first, you need to know where you stand." 📌 Call to Action (CTA): 💥 "Take our FREE Confidence Assessment now and see where you stand. Click the link in our bio! " 🎬 Text Overlay: 📍 "Take the Confidence Assessment! Link in Bio." 🔥 Final Thoughts: This Confidence Assessment strategy is a GAME-CHANGER for martial arts schools. It doesn’t just attract leads —it starts meaningful conversations and shows people exactly why they need your program. ✅ Simple. Effective. Actionable.
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